I recently got to thinking about light and how many different ways we use it to our advantage. Diving headlamps, recessed canister lighting, surgical lasers, lighthouse beacons, Halloween black lights. Seems like there’s a special light for every possible use and occasion.

As intelligent beings, we “shine light” on the changes and challenges in our lives through our capacity to think logically, creatively, reflectively. But it’s easy to get into a fixed way of thinking, kind of like that all-purpose, 60-watt incandescent bulb. How we analyze situations, solve problems, and make decisions often follows a predictable pattern. This can work for us most of the time, just as that ol’ white light bulb meets most of our everyday household needs.

But wouldn’t it be more powerful, more illuminating, if we could select the perfect way of thinking to ideally suit each problem or decision point we encounter? After all, a doctor wouldn’t use a floodlight to remove a tumor, nor would a spelunker use a laser to find their way through a cave. Using light as a metaphor, let’s talk about a range of thinking styles and how to select the best approach for a given situation, using career transition as an example.

Candlelight. A way of thinking that is quiet, calm, introspective, meditative. Thinking like candlelight uses peace, intuition, and spirituality to access inner wisdom and insight for important decisions. You might use this kind of thinking to ask yourself important questions about your ideal career, your contribution to society, or your life’s purpose.

Flashlight. A flashlight is for searching, exploring, and illuminating. You can use flashlight thinking when you want to explore a problem or get more information. It’s a frame of mind that is inquisitive, open-minded, non-judgmental, and optimistic. Flashlight thinking is great for researching new career opportunities, investigating organizations of interest, or figuring out how to expand your skill set.

Floodlight. This bold light is used to illuminate a wide area and dispel the darkness. Use floodlight thinking to open up your horizons and drive out fear. It’s about being courageous and taking action, even when you feel scared. Floodlight thinking can be about believing in your own ability to find meaningful work or ask for that promotion. It’s about choosing to see opportunity where none existed before.

Ultraviolet/Infrared. This is light we can’t see, yet can feel its effects. It represents the Aha! moments in our lives, when something shifts and we suddenly see our situation differently. Sometimes these epiphanies take us by surprise; sometimes they’re a long time coming. It’s the moment of truth that says, “I don’t want to do this job anymore,” or “Hey, I could turn my hobby into a career!”

Prism. A prism isn’t a source of light, but rather a filter for seeing light differently. I liken it to our imagination, allowing playfulness and creativity to transform ordinary thoughts into a rainbow of possibilities. It’s inspired problem-solving, mind-mapping, brainstorming, playing with new ideas, letting yourself outside of your own box and seeing what happens. It’s imagining what you’d do for work if money were no object, or if you could call a “do-over” on your career.

Laser. A laser is powerful, concentrated light source that’s made for action. Laser thinking is precise, focused, and results-oriented. Use laser thinking to create S.M.A.R.T. goals (Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Realistic, Time-driven). It’s knowing where you want to go and developing a plan for how to get there. An example is deciding to update your résumé by a certain date, or apply for a specific job that sounds perfect for you.

So next time you have a problem you’re struggling with, ask yourself, “What kind of light am I shining on this situation?” Chances are you might benefit from changing the brightness, intensity or hue of your thoughts to come up with better solutions. And if your own light fails to illuminate, ask a friend to lend you theirs.

My husband and I like to play games. Board games in particular, but most any game will do. One day we walked around downtown Portland, on a hunt for objects that started with each letter of the alphabet. (The letter X made this a particularly long walk).

This ability to play serves us well, especially when life gets stressful. It reminds us that even in serious times there’s still some room for levity. I also believe that the ability to play helps us overcome adversity in ways that few other things can.

During childhood, most of us are experts at play. It’s hardwired in us to use our imagination as we figure out the world around us and come up with strategies for dealing with it. But somewhere during adolescence, we give up “childish” ways in favor of independence and maturity. Our strategies solidify, and our (apparent) need to experiment decreases. This is all well and good except for the fact that, once established as adults, we tend to forget all the other benefits that play affords us:

• A way to release tension, stress, and anxiety
• An avenue for social connection
• Access to the healthful perks of smiles and laughter
• Ways to look at our problems in a new light
• Opportunities for creative, innovative solutions.

Fortunately, lots of grown-ups still know how to play. Competitive sports, poker night, video games, even stock day-trading can all be forms of play. These activities certainly can help us relieve stress, improve our social life, and provide us with humor (all but the day-trading, I expect).

However, the kind of play I’m advocating taps into our childlike sense of creativity and wonder. It fuels our imagination and stretches our mind to see our world in a fresh way. It’s this kind of play that helps us approach problems differently and come up with creative solutions.

If you have kids, you’re probably a lot closer to this kind of play, especially when you get down on your hands and knees and become a dragon, or get fingerpaint under your nails.

But even if you don’t have kids (or your kids have reached that “I’m too old to play” age themselves), there’s immense benefit in reawakening the kid in you. Regardless of your current challenge, taking time to play can make a world of difference.

Here are some ideas for play you might not have considered lately, if ever:

• Organize a scavenger hunt with neighborhood kids (or adults!).
• Play Frisbee in a nearby field, or find a Frisbee golf course if you’re goal-oriented.
• Dust off your Rubik’s cube. Work it awhile then remember why it collected dust in the first place.
• Go to a thrift or vintage store and rescue one of the games or toys you played with as a child. Play with it again.
• Play badminton or croquet (badly) with friends.
• Browse online for a weird toy or gizmo. Some favorite sites include www.ehobbies.com, www.thinkertoys.com, and www.scientificsonline.com.
• Write a limerick or haiku about a current challenge you’re having.
• Even better, take a favorite song and personalize the lyrics. Sing it to yourself or to very trusted friends.
• Buy jacks. Play with them.
• If you’re a crossword puzzle addict, buy a word puzzle book and try something completely different.
• Get a paint-by-number set. Ignore all the color codes.
• If you built model trains/planes/cars as a kid, go get one. Re-experience paint and glue and racing stripe decals.
• Ask your kid to make up a game, then play it with them. Then it’s your turn to make one up.

Play is personal and highly subjective, but the value and rewards are universal. By tapping into the very best part of who we were as children, we can reclaim the very best part of who we are now.

So, how will you go out and play today?

As we move my elderly father 1,000 miles closer to us, the concept of “worry” has been on my mind a lot lately. The dictionary defines worry as “feeling uneasy or concerned about something; to be troubled.” Worry can also be “to pull or tear at something with or as if with the teeth” (like a dog worrying a bone). That’s a fitting analogy for the scenarios we repeatedlygnaw on with our minds.

So, why do we worry? I believe there are several reasons:

1. We simulate negative situations to “practice” how we will handle them in real life.
2. We imagine worst-case scenarios as a kind of talisman, protecting us from their actually happening.
3. Since our brain chemistry doesn’t differentiate between real and imagined scenarios, we get addicted to the “fight or flight” chemicals released when we imagine the worst.

In truth, worrying rarely helps us. How many times has the situation you worried about actually turned out that way? What worry does do is put us in a constant state of anxiety, weakening our immune system, suppressing our creativity, and in fact making us less able to handle difficult life situations when they do arise.

Believe it or not, we choose to worry. After many years of practice that choice becomes a habit, but one that can be broken with conscious effort. Without becoming an insufferable optimist or dismissing reality, you can still choose to focus on the best-case scenario. By doing so, you send your mind and body a signal that this is the outcome you’re aiming for.

Here are a few creative ways to help break the worrying habit:

CIA. Consider the situation you’re worried about, and make a three-column list: things you can Control, things you can Influence, and things you can Accept about the situation. Take action on the first two columns, and let go of the third.

Freebird. If you’re a visual person, sometimes it helps to imagine your thoughts as something tangible. I often picture worrisome thoughts as trapped birds, frantically flapping around in my head. Then I imagine opening a window and letting them fly out. While you can use any image that works for you, I recommend finding something that signifies “letting go” or “releasing.”

Get in gear. Worrying is a lot like having your foot on the gas pedal without the car being in gear. You waste a lot of gas but don’t go anywhere. Change that potential energy into kinetic energy! Go for a walk, run up a flight of stairs, turn on some music and dance. Move your body and change your chemistry.Now’s OK. Bring yourself back to the present. Where are you and what are you doing right now? Eating breakfast, driving your car, sitting in your office, brushing your teeth, walking the dog? Chances are you’re in familiar territory. Is there anything in this moment that’s truly unmanageable? Do this each time you feel overwhelmed. By returning to the present, you reclaim your power over the situation and your life. Even when you’re faced with something new, assess the present and know that you’re handling it, right now.

Improvise on these to suit your personality. For more ideas, read 25 Ways to Break the Worrying Habit.